Sunday, January 22, 2012

Obituary

After people died, by the grace of the left behind relatives, friends, and the people that life has been touched by the decease. A heartfelt loving memory, an inspirational stories, and the uplifting testimonies of the passing member will be described it beautifully in this last life journey-that is obituary.
If we are truly touched by our love one, or our mentor, or friend, the praising should be when the person still can receive their good work well done acknowledgement. Recognition, a path on their shoulders, an encouragement statement, a thank you note, and appreciation small love gift, the passionate about to show our gratitude is endlessly with our imagination. So our loving memory of the blessing we received should be doing it continuously when the person still alive, through our meaningful appreciated with action and words.
The real meaning of “memorable legacy through writing Obituary of the dead”, why not start now, today, and forward; and not wait until the passing of a great human . Living by counting our blessings the people among us, to humbly discover the wonders, the kindness, the selfless acts and the positive impacted in our lives. Take our time to feel their presence, perhaps even discovering new depths , in blessing us wonderful message that God has giving us through Flesh, our guardian Angels among us.
How about express: THANK YOU! YOU ARE LOVED! I APPREICATED YOUR SUPPORT! Even not to be afraid to admit that you are sorry, you are wrong by saying I AM SORRY! When it still not too late to do that.
The Chinese New Year is here after the New Year of 2012, means that fresh start of new beginning, with new attitude with new action ,and new hope. So as we are preparing our new change. Do not taking anything for granted, and lift and praise other as often as our opportunities rise.
Perhaps we should do our spring cleaning in removing the big elephant in our living room, praying for forgiveness. “But when you are praying, first forgive anyone you are holding grudge against, so that your Father in Heave will forgive your sins, too”. Mark 11:25.
But forgiveness, and love should be our daily rituals, not just for the New Year resolution .In time, our kindness, positive, genuine and grace of God will uplift our spirit in connected to our love one.
Therefore, grace is in action for the living, and not by the un-meaningful memorial essay of the passing to show how much we care for the decease. A heartfelt loving memory, an inspirational stories, and the uplifting testimonies of the passing member will be described it beautifully in his/her past life journey, truely will be craved in our heart.

Sunday, September 11, 2011

KEEP THE FAITH

911 's ten years anniversary. It is a very emotional day. Even after such a long time, my heart goes out for the victims and their family.
Extremist terrors act, tried to destroy US: physically, mentally, financially, and emotionally. The despair is unbearable, the loss grief, and pain still remain. Terrors want to terrorise us,leave us with agony , even gave us fear,lost, and hatred. But they can never break us down, our spirit is stand, is living with hope, love, and more caring for one another.
In the darkest hour, we can count on God's faithfulness. Because, I know, even in the hopeless hour, God is there, I have been live through countless despair moments, and I can press through and testimony God's faithfulness. He guided me , He embraced me, and He has never forsaken me. so keep the Faith, recovery is possible, and our faith will grow much fonder because of that.

Friday, July 22, 2011

I m nothing without you, Lord!

"...that you may declare the praises of Him who called you out of darkness into His wonderful light. Once you were not a people, but now you are the people of God; once you had not received mercy, but now you have received mercy." Ipeter 29b

Anxiety,upset,disappointment, sadness could cause so much sorrow---which escalate to chronic or traumatic stress. As stress increases, health and performance actually improve. Stress is an elevation in a person's state of arousal or readiness, cause the brain sounds an alert to the adrenal glands. The adrenals answer by pouring out the first of the major stress hormones called "adrenaline" . It evolved with the prime directive of ensuring our safety and survival mechanism. The pulse begins to race as the adrenaline steps up the heart rate, sending extra blood to the muscles and organs. Physically we feel uptight, and stiff. When oxygen rushes in as the bronchial tubes in the lungs dilate; extra oxygen also reaches the brain, which helps keeping us alert. During the stage of the fight or flight response, the brain releases natural painkillers called " endorphins".
However, when the stress response is active for a long period of time, or often accrue, it can surely damage the cardiovascular, immune, and nervous systems. Sometime develop to nervous breakdown.If stress is extreme and not managed, some individuals experience post traumatic stress disorder.PTSD.
The breakdown of my relationship with my long time partner is an awakening of my spirit. This broken pieces journey led me to a breakthrough in my spiritual life.
People develop patterns of response that are as varies as the individuals.As for me, I felt betrayed, disrespected, disgraced, even violated my trust. Piece by piece shatters in front of me, and feeling so devastating that there is nothing I can do, or say to stop it. Identify the helplessness,shame, guilt, fear, every emotion just pile up around me. The only strength that sustained me is surrender all this insanity to God, knowing that Jesus is my shelter, my Rock and my comfort. My relied on our Heavenly father is growing strong. We can only rely on the spirit, not the flesh. It took me deepened my faith. It opened my heart and mind. Be still and know God is with me.
My bad, others are fail, but His good, and He is faithful!
"Godly sorrow brings repentance that leads to salvation and leaves no regret,
but worldly sorrow brings death" II Corinthians 7:10.
Our worldly life , crumble and fallen, it will always disappoint us. Now I recognize that abundantly increase for God in " But blessed is the on who trusts in the lord, whose confidence is in Him. He will be like a tree planted by the water that sends out roots by the stream. It does not fear when heat comes; its leaves are always green. It has no worries in a year of drought and never fails to bear fruit." Jeremiah 17:7.
Gradually I understand that my life fell apart one piece at a time. Piece by piece in one situation, one lesson, one experience, one mistake, one circumstance, one revelation at a time; Until my realization of spiritual awareness, a child of God. A spiritual warfare. It 's time for a test of faith
by God.
Happiness is not something we wish for,or hoping others to make us happy.
Rather, happiness is a quest in a person's state of readiness, to design for, and set our open mind to embrace it .
God granted us with fruit of the spirit which including: peace, joy, and love...the ultimate happiness is rejoice in God's blessing!

Thursday, June 16, 2011

Happy papa's day













When mother's day and father's day comes, that reminds me how fully blessed I m to have both of them are unsurpassed in healthy and strong living with us today.

The habits of loving heart

God knew the world needed courage, a testimony of strength, a sense of kindness, and dignity." Love know no limit to its endurance, no end to its trust, no fading of it hope;it can outlast anything".(1Corinthians13:7)

My dad taught me the importance of integrity and the value of a strong justice, always perseveres, always hopes, always fight for the heavenly cause. My father's sacrifices and unconditional love , no end to his selflessness acts to his Journalists calling; made it possible for me to live, to learn, to protected my identity , as Chinese in a foreign country, and the lessons I learned from his example ,honor to serve others, tell the truth,and to made a difference in the lives of others, what an impact!

Despite his despair and suffering have proved to be invaluable and was an inspiration to my life's journey---helping people with compassion.

God saw the importance of these compelling devotion,goodness and faithfulness...
therefore, He made father. Happy father's day!