Letting go

Since no one likes to be left out, in our journey , for many of us, it conjures up many memories of our past. some are good, happy, and content...and some are bad, despair, and the worst of our life passage.

Hopefuly , we learned from the painful past and grow from it.

We treasure the good, and want to hold on to that wonderful feelings. But the truth is , we all moving on with our life, just like the world constantly change, and revolving.

when we are as a parent, a grow up adult, we do things responsibly. We function as family mascot, the placater. Always serving, always giving, nurturing, parenting, caring, providing, and doing in love for our family. Even neglecting our needs, our desire in what we would like,and sometime our dreams. Eventually, resent it, if we do for others ,base out of need , not a choice.

The answer lies in both our greatest blessing and our worst curse: our capacity to make choices. By refocus on our life, our needs, be our own best friend; build our glorious life to have a healthy life. let go and let God ! Resentment letting go, totally release our children, and our love one . Set the agenda for our life. The freedom to decide how we will think, how we will act, and the ability to make positive choices. the gift of freedom is also the source of so much pain in our world. Unfortunately we often pleased people in the past, and subconsciously build up anger, anxiety, than resent it. gradually feel like being a "victim" , poor me type. In directly build up so many shame and guilt trip to our love one.

But there is so much joy if we do things for others with a willing and a happy heart. By setting this attitude in our center, can bring great personal peace and fond memories into our life.